In most fraternities and sororities, the new member period ends with initiation, a private ritual only members attend. In Divine Nine organizations, members "cross" at the end of the membership intake process, and many chapters hold a public new member presentation (often called a probate or a show) where families can cheer.
This is a gift that should last. Think keepsakes, not novelty items. Many organizations sell official badges and pins only through their headquarters or licensed jewelers, so let your student buy those themselves.
Shopping tip: add the organization's name to any search (for example, "Delta Gamma tumbler") to find officially licensed products from approved sellers.
Our picks
Embroidered letter jacket
A lined jacket with letters and crossing year is a classic milestone gift. Search with the organization's name for licensed sellers.
Keepsake journal
Somewhere to write down the experience while it's fresh: line name, dates, what it meant.
Shadow box
Holds a line jacket patch, programs, photos and pins in one display.
Licensed jewelry
Charms and lavalieres from licensed jewelers. Add the organization's name to the search.
Flowers and a card at the presentation
For Divine Nine families: bring flowers or a balloon in the organization's colors to the new member presentation.
Frame for the line or initiation photo
The group photo is the one that ends up on Grandma's wall.
Frequently asked questions
Can parents attend initiation?
Usually not; initiation rituals are private to members. Divine Nine new member presentations are often public, so ask your student when and where.
What's the difference between initiation and crossing?
Both mean becoming a full member. "Crossing" is the term used in Divine Nine and many culturally based organizations; most other fraternities and sororities say "initiation."
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